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Erotic Spanking

Post by Love 2000 on Mon Jan 23, 2017 9:12 am

I would love a spanking master to disciple me, I've been bad and I really love spanking my butt. It hurts but everything about it turns me on. After I get a good spanking it makes want to have sex all night long because that is how bad it really turns me on. Down below is some information that I had found on the internet about erotic spanking so will know what I am looking for.

Erotic spanking is the act of spanking another person for the sexual arousal or gratification of either or both parties. Activities range from a spontaneous smack on bare buttocks during a sexual activity, to occasional sexual role play, such as age play, to domestic discipline and may involve the use of a hand or the use of a variety of spanking implements, such as a spanking paddle or cane. Erotic spankings are commonly combined with other forms of sexual foreplay. The most common type of erotic spanking is administered on the bare buttocks, but can also be combined with bondage, in order to heighten sexual arousal and feelings of helplessness. Many cultures describe pain as an aphrodisiac. For example, the Kama Sutra, in particular, goes into specific detail on how to properly strike a partner during sex. Message me if your interested and want to talk about spankings or being my spanking master.

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Post by lightspanker on Mon Jan 23, 2017 10:10 am

Erotic spanking is now so ubiquitous to sex that there’s a good chance that more people are into spanking fetish then you think, even those who read this post, have experienced it – and it’s no surprise why. Spanking is a great way to inject a bit of playful pain into an intimate experience, and vary the array of sensations that are on offer. First of all, it’s the easiest way to experiment for first-time BDSM play ; all you need is a hand, a buttock, and some momentum applied to said hand (also a sense of aim, because nobody likes being slapped in the tailbone). Secondly, it’s pretty risk-free; we can’t even venture to think of any serious injury that can be inflicted through a little love tap, with worst that can feasibly happen is you being on the receiving end of a ‘what the hell was that?’ look before getting back to the business at hand. However to get down to the real reason behind spanking – aside from it feeling good – differs from person to person, because hey, we’re all mixed bags of nuts.

Some do it to feel dominant, while others accept it to feel dominated , and many just do it to add that extra bit of spice. It can be enjoyed by both partners – because it goes both ways – but only if proper spanking etiquette is followed, such as;

Strikes should be focused on the lower, meatier part of the cheeks and upper thighs
Follow every spank with a light caress of the slapped area
Don’t slap hard enough to leave a hand imprint – unless permission is given
Make sure to remove jewelry like rings and bracelets

Okay, so your rings are removed and you know where to aim, but what now? Well, you’re ready to begin, so have your spanking subject get in the proper spanking position;

You (the spanker), sit on the bed with your knees over the side, just as you would a chair
Your partner (the spankee) then lies stomach-down across your lap
Otherwise, you can have them assume an all-fours position while you stand to the side

From either of these vantage points, you’ve got the perfect amount of room to get an arc with your good spankin’ arm, as well as enjoy the view.


Implements of Posterior Punishment:

Your Hand:

The classic spanking tool, literally passed down through the generations. We’ve all got them (unless you don’t, in which case sorry), and they’re practically made for spanking, as you can most accurately control the intensity of your blows.

Paddle:

The humble paddle is widely available in a number of materials like wood, metal or leather to vary the sensations, and offer a much more assertive slap then the hand. Don’t start a spanking session by going straight to the paddle; build up the tension with some hand slaps before moving on to this tool.

Whips and Floggers:

There are as many varieties of whips in the world as there are bums for them to be slapped across, each offering a different type of sting. The length of the whip and they type and texture of the material it’s made with all play a part in the final experience you’ll have, so if you’re buying one to use on a partner, only do so if it’s one you’d have used on you in turn.

Top Tips for Tukus Taps:

Start Soft:

Begin with a bottom massage of gentle strokes and soft tickling of their butt cheeks before going in for your opening salvo of spanks. This will up the anticipation of the first strike and the jolt from soft to stinging will have their full attention.

Mind Your Aim, Gents:

Aim a spank low and center, at the crease where cheek meets thigh; the vibrations from your strike will stimulate her genitals.
More Cushion (but Not for Pushin’)

If you have your spanking subject lying face-down over your knee or on the bed, prop their bottom up with a pillow placed under their tummy. It will help you aim your hand, and provide some shock absorption for the recipient of the spank.

Have a Ball (or Two)

Add some amazing vibrations to the spanking experience by having a female spankee wear vibrating Ben Wa balls during her playful punishment. Each strike will cause the balls to jiggle around and perfectly mix some pleasure with the pain.
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Post by Love 2000 on Mon Jan 23, 2017 10:12 am

Here is some more information about erotic spanking.

OK, who's been a naughty, naughty little kinkster? Tsk, tsk ... somebody needs a spanking! But before you dive headlong into a nasty little game of slap and tickle, you may want to read our crash course on spanking. Consider it spanking 101.

1. Why Spanking Is Sensual:

Some people think spanking a lover's a bit odd, or even taboo, but a good spanking in the bedroom certainly has its perks. In fact, erotic spanking has begun to pique the interest of an overwhelming number of women and men lately, particularly since the release of E.L. James' steamy best-selling novel, "Fifty Shades of Grey." In fact, according to statistics published by the British Sexual Fantasy Research Project (seriously, how cool is that?) in 2007 18 percent of British men and 7 percent of British women fantasize about spanking someone, while 11 percent of men and 13 percent of women fantasize about being spanked. (Sadly, Americans don't appear to be kinky enough to slap some stats together on spanking, but you can bet your ass it has its fans on this side of the pond too.) Why spanking, you ask? Well, it feels good, darn it! Unlike other erogenous zones, the buttocks are fleshy and fatty. For most people, this means that a decent amount of pressure on the bottom is not only tolerable, but necessary in order to bring on pleasurable sensations. And, because the old derrière is, for many people, an erotic zone, a good spank can be the best way to fire it up. The act of spanking itself also has not-so-subtle tones of dominance and submission, which can be oh-so-sexy in and of itself. (Check out A Beginner's Guide to Submission for more sexy insight.) If you're looking to add a little spice to your sex life or want a taste of some soft-core BDSM, spanking might be just the thing for you and your partner. The right approach and techniques, however, are key components for making a good spanking a sexy thing.

1. Talk First Spank Later:

Communication is essential if you're looking to give your partner a few sharp slaps - or receive some yourself. An unexpected spanking can be a real slap in the face if the feeling isn't mutual. Before you bring out the whips and paddles, bring up spanking casually with your partner to feel things out. Then, you can discuss how you both feel about spanking, and maybe give it a try. Think this sounds awkward? So will giving your partner a smack he or she doesn't want. Consent is essential. Plus, discussing what you want to do to each other is great foreplay! (Find out how to broach to topic in Yes! Why Consent Is Totally Sexy.)

2. Play by the Rules:

Spanking can be painful, both physically and emotionally. A lot of people love to play with the boundaries of pain, punishment and pleasure, but setting some rules beforehand is essential. In fact, those who enjoy BDSM live by this rule. So discuss your limits. Tell your partner what you're willing to try. And then tell them what you absolutely won't do. Then listen to get that same information from your partner. Of course, you aren't looking to hurt anyone (much), but injury is possible. That's why a safeword is essential. This is a word or phrase that you would not normally say during sex. The colors of a traffic light - red, yellow, and green - make an excellent safeword system and are used widely in the BDSM community. "Red" means all activity should stop immediately; "yellow" means slow down or ease up. "Green," of course, means get your spank on!

3. Set the Mood:

Like any erotic activity, it's important to set the mood before you let loose on your partner's behind. If he or she isn't sufficiently aroused, the spanking won't be erotic, just painful - and not in a good way. It's best to go slow and let the festivities progress naturally. Start with a little cuddling and kissing, then progress to foreplay. A little hint of dirty talk can really help set the mood too, especially if someone is being particularly naughty. (Find out what to say and how to say it in Talk Dirty to Me: The Why and How of Hot Aural Sex.)

4. Get In On the Act:

Role-playing isn't absolutely necessary if you want to explore your spanking fantasy, but it sure can be a fun way to add to the overall experience. In fact, it may be easier to be the spanked or the spanked when you take the time to get into character. Any type of dominance and submission role-playing is perfect for a night of spanking. Some prime examples include master and slave, teacher and student, or daddy and little girl role-playing. Only you know what kind of story line moves you, so get creative.

5. Assume the Position:

When it comes to spanking positions, you have a lot to choose from. Probably the most common spanking position is the over-the-knee position. Here, the spankee is draped over the spank lap. It's intimate, simple and sexy. Of course, there's more than one way to flog a friend. If the over-the-knee position isn't doing it for you, there are several more to choose from. Try having the spanked lean over a piece of furniture, stand and lean against the wall, kneel on their hands and knees, or lie face-down on the bed or floor. There is even sex furniture designed specifically for spanking!

6. Get Warmed Up:

Spank: Start slow. It's best to warm your partner up a little before any real walloping begins. Start with light and gentle caresses first. If you partner responds well, you can work your way up to gentle swats, and finally to a good, full-blown spanking.

7. Experiment With Technique:

Not all spanking techniques are created equal, and a little experimenting in this area will help you and your partner find the ones that work best. Spanking techniques can be changed up every so often by varying the shape of the hand, intensity and speed of your strikes. For example, cupping your hand while spanking will usually result in a duller, deeper thud rather than the stinging sensation that usually results from spanking with a flat palm. Alternating between caresses and swats, or firmly grasping the buttocks at the end of each stroke are also great ways to mix it up a bit. Also, don't be afraid to experiment with following through with your swats as opposed to letting the hand bounce off the buttocks slightly, as each of these methods produce totally different sensations. Above all, listen to how your partner responds and react to it. (You can also use a paddle? Learn about the difference between a wood, silicone or leather spanking paddle here.)

8. Don't Be a Masochist:

An erotic spanking should be ... well, erotic. Be sure to incorporate some sensual action into the spanking, especially as you gage your partner's passion for pain. For instance, you could lightly scratch, tickle, or rub the buttocks between spanks, or stroke the anus or genitals while spanking. With a little practice and the proper training, it may be possible to make someone orgasm from spanking alone!

9. Play Safe:

Pain can be pleasure, but injury means you've gone too far. Always keep spanking to the fleshy area of the buttocks. Spanking on bony areas, such as the tail bone and hip bones, can be rather painful and even leave ugly bruises. Never, ever spank a partner just above the buttocks, as this can result in spinal or kidney trauma. The partner being spanked shouldn't be afraid to communicate during spanking sessions and be willing to tell their spanked when it's too much. The spanked should also respect the spank boundaries and stop spanking when the safeword is uttered.

10. Don't Forget to Cuddle:

The period of time following a spanking sessions is just as important as the spanking itself. This is a time to relax, unwind, and discuss what you both liked - and didn't like. If the spanking session was particularly intense, a little cuddling may be in order. A warm bubble bath or cool washcloth on the buttocks is also very soothing and can be an excellent way to bond after a spanking session.


11. Getting' Cheeky With It

Spanking can be exciting, arousing and oh-so-sensual. If a little (or a lot) of pain is your pleasure of choice, you might want to bend over and give spanking a try. Or maybe deliver a swat or two to your partner.

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